little kiddos vs. bigbig adults
11:49 p.m. - 20.06.2006
today, my cousin whom i was tutoring cried over 2 peices of chewing gum. recently, i bought back a pack of chewing gum for him. and been using the chewing gum as some motivation for him to do his homework properly and concentrate. :)
i gave him a few last week. those few pieces are really precious to him. his mummy took 2..not thinking it would affect him that much.
he cried and wanted me to give him 5 immed when i came. i insisted that i gave him 5 only after he had done his work today. :P haa...i insisted. and i did give him 5 at the end of the lesson...woohoo..i almost gave in to him. ..but this kind of little kiddoe..:P have to be really firm and mean what u say..or else it's hard to control him.
was trying to ask him why he cried. he didn't want to say. :P
maybe. u know..a little kid's world is very differnt from an adult's world..little pieces of chewing gum mean a lot to them. in their world at the moment, the chewing gum is like some valuable possession. to an adult, there are even more valuable things than 2 pieces of chewing gum. :P
the adult takes the 2 pieces of chewing gum without asking, thinking it's nothing much. but, to a little kid....it's a very precious thing. :) something that they really treasure...every little bit. :P and, maybe because he has so little..he treasures it even more..;P yup..wu4 yi3 xi1 wei2 gui4.
in a little kid's world. things are much simpler. much simpler things. may not mean much to big adults. but little kids may think that those simple things are really great...:) and valuable...:)
yup.
that's how conflicts arise. little kiddos vs. bigbig adults. :) i guess so..maybe that's one reason. :) maybe bigbig adults should learn to ask first before they take anything from a little kid. even though it may seem like something insignificant. of not much value.:)
wonder if i'll remember that when i become a fullfledged adult. :) haa..when will i be one?:P haa..people still call me xiao3 mei4 mei4. :D haa....it doesn't matter.:)
woohoo.. i'm evil. but a teacher has to be firm and evil at times to be effecient.:) haa....today i was really irrirated with his attitude. as i've said before attitude means a lot to me>:) i will really show my irritation when i am upset with poor attitude. and i think he knew it. but what i can't really understand is..why must he go through the trouble to trick me to think that he's not doing his work properly?:P
hm. haa..he wants to make me angry..i guess..:P
muahaha...:D i still have the chewing gum..though he tried to make me pour all out..and grab ht packet from me. luckily i was stronger than him.haa...:P hais. it's just chewing gum. wonder why it's so addictive.:P
okay. wish he could improve his attitude. how do i make little kids improve their attitude? :P
hm.
woohoo..after a period of negligence, this song suddenly came into my mind yesterday..and has been playing...:) in my mind...i still love it's relaxed tune and nice, simple lyrics...:)
我一直都想对你说
你给我想不到的快乐像绿洲给了沙漠
说你会永远陪着我
做我的根我翅膀让我飞也有回去的窝
我愿意我也可以付出一切也不会可惜
就在一起看时间流逝要记得我们相爱的方式
就是爱你爱着你有悲有喜有你平淡也有了意义
就是爱你爱着你甜蜜又安心那种感觉就是你
我一直都想对你说
你给我想不到的快乐像绿洲给了沙漠
说你会永远陪着我
做我的根我翅膀让我飞也有回去的窝
我愿意真的愿意付出所有也要保护你
oh 在一起时间继续流逝请记得我有多么的爱你
oh 就是爱你爱着你不弃不离开不在意一路有多少风雨
就是爱你爱着你放在你手心灿烂的幸福全给你
oh 就是爱你爱着你我都愿意
就是爱你爱着你要我们在一起