crazier
8:17 p.m. - 03.08.2005

somehow we started talking about gays. and then came a heated discussion between my mum and i.

she says gays ren2 bu2 xiang4 ren2, gui3 bu2 xiang4 gui3..is ren2 yao1.i strongly disagree. they're just humans. humans like us. with a different sexual orientation. different from the so-called norm.

norm=what society has defined to be correct.

she says gays are morally wrong. werongwrongwrong.

i disagree. sometimes, it isn't a choice.it's something to do with what's within them. how they feel. just like how girls are SUPPOSED to like guys and guys SUPPOSED to like girls. that's normal. that's considered normal at least.and, gays...they feel something for other gusy..is that wrong? and, if someone chose to change sex? i don't think it's wrong. but, who would make a deliberate attempt to change sex jsut for the sake of changing. think of the cost. physical trauma? mental? how do you cope with the weird gazes at you? i believe it is a conscious decision made. but a decision made after much struggle. much deliberation.and, i don't think it's wrong. after all, it's his/her choice.

why should we even look down on them? okay. i tihnk it isn't wrong to look down on others..because we all judge...we have our own moral compasses. but, what about judging others based on misconceptions? assuming that a whole group of people are like that just because you saw some behaving in a certain manner?

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hais. i still don't see what's so wrong with gays? why does she look down on them? why? because they're not like you? because they aren't "normal"?

i asked her," do you look down on all others who are different from you?"

what's "normal"? what's really "normal"? i don't think there's anything really "normal"? okay. so if i do by society's definition. i'm normal. but am i really?

why are we so afraid of the "abnormal"? why do you look down on the "abnormal"? why? and aren't the disbled somewhat "abnormal" too? so, we feel sorry for them? we try to donate money to them to make them live "normal" lives..or at least lives we consider to be normal..

maybe i'm too naive as my mum said. i'm naive to think all these? i don't think so. maybe my perceptions are going to change?

i don't know. but i wonder why this whole world is trying to be superior..? to prove they're better..to prove they're more normal.

more normal than ever.

but, in fact. the world is getting crazier.

weirder.

more chaotic.

boom!

it'll be gone.

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